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Your good friend, Jade, tells you that she\u2019s having problems with her boyfriend, Hugo. She tells you about several incidents that make you wonder whether it could be dating violence. Jade tells you about her relationship and has a lot of questions about Hugo\u2019s behaviour.<\/h3>\n

Do you think that Jade is experiencing violence in her relationship, and do you think you can identify the different kinds of violence?<\/strong><\/div>\n

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Jade confides in you:<\/h3>\n

\u00ab When I\u2019m with Hugo, I feel ignored, useless, and I have no self-confidence.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab My boyfriend tells me what to wear… He thinks that I dress too sexy.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab Hugo demands that I always be available for him… But the same doesn\u2019t go for him.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab He always wants to know what I\u2019m doing and wants me to answer his texts right away.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab Hugo gets jealous about everything. Yesterday it was because I talked to a guy in my class.\u00bb
\nPsychological and verbal<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab My boyfriend has fits of rage. To avoid them, I don\u2019t always tell when I go out or everything I do.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab Hugo might take revenge if I break up with him. I\u2019m afraid of him and of how he\u2019ll react, so I stay with him, but I don\u2019t think I love him anymore.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong>\n<\/div>\n

\n\u00ab He often threatens that if I leave him, he\u2019ll kill himself.\u00bb
\nVerbal and psychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab My boyfriend often tries to make me drink, even when I tell him I don\u2019t want to.\u00bb
\nPsychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab Hugo puts me down or laughs at me in front of his buddies.\u00bb
\nVerbal and psychological<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab He often wants me to pay for things and when we go out.\u00bb
\nEconomic<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab My boyfriend calls me a \u2018bitch\u2019 in front of my best friend and tells her all about our sex life, including intimate details.\u00bb
\nVerbal and sexual<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab After we\u2019ve had a fight, Hugo forces me to have sex with him, even if I say no.\u00bb
\nSexual<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab He\u2019s grabbed me by the arms before but said he was just trying to calm me down.\u00bb
\nPhysical<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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If you are experiencing dating violence like Jade, you might:<\/h3>\n
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  • Feel increasingly unhappy<\/li>\n
  • Lie to your parents and friends because of him<\/li>\n
  • Feel like no one believes you<\/li>\n
  • Feel like you\u2019re being judged for staying with him<\/li>\n
  • Believe your boyfriend\u2019s excuses and yet realize that he might do it again a short time later… This can trap the victim.<\/li>\n
  • Live in fear<\/li>\n
  • Feel belittled<\/li>\n
  • Feel increasingly isolated<\/li>\n
  • Have less self-confidence<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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    • Experience mood swings<\/li>\n
    • Worry your friends<\/li>\n
    • Want to help him but feel powerless to do so because you no longer believe him<\/li>\n
    • Believe his justifications because his father was not around when he was a child<\/li>\n
    • Find all kinds of reasons and excuses to justify how he acts<\/li>\n
    • Be afraid you\u2019re going to fail the school year because you\u2019re having a hard time focusing<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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